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The DARVO Briefing
A recurring dispatch on recognizing DARVO patterns — Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender — as they show up in relationships, workplaces, and institutions.
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The Starter Kit
Once you can name the pattern, the next question is what to do with it. The Starter Kit gives you language and tools for that:
- Documentation Toolkit — a structured way to record what's happening, in case you need it later.
- 50 Grey Rock Responses — scripted, low-fuel replies for staying steady in the moment.
- Pocket Reference Card — the DARVO pattern, at a glance.
- First 72 Hours After DARVO — what to do right after you recognize it.